Falling In Love With A Guy Who Has A Girlfriend
Reader’s Relationship Question:
Hi! I wrote to you since I heard you’re great for expert relationship advice. I’m 16 and falling in love with this guy friend who I talk to everyday. He seems into me and we chat for hours, but I later find out that he has a girlfriend. I still let him hold my hand, though, but it never goes farther than that. I keep thinking he will eventually leave his girlfriend for me. What should I do to make him mine? I really like him, and I think he’s perfect for me.
Relationship Advice:
Young girls like you often come to me for relationship advice, and this is not the first time I have encountered a woman with a boyfriend flirting around. However, right off the bat, let me tell you that this guy sounds like a player, and it is best to forget him. The fact that he has a girlfriend means that he’s committed to her, and, really, he shouldn’t be holding other girls’ hands!
It may be painful to hear, but it sounds to me like this guy wants the best of both worlds. He wants to keep being physical with you and yet at the same time, stay in a relationship with his girl. Is it okay with you to share your man? I’m sure that even if you do want to keep seeing him, this fact will not sit well with his girlfriend.
So, keep reminding yourself: HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND.
Unless he makes a clean break and you know for sure that he has broken up with her, then it is best to avoid this situation. I understand how you may think he’s perfect for you, and he may have promised you that he will eventually leave her, but unless he actually does so, don’t flirt or have physical contact with him. This is the best expert relationship advice I can give you.
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